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If you are reading this, you probably suspect your spouse of leading a double life. They way they act seems suddenly different to you - they just are not the same person you married. Too many times, the victim of a cheating spouse is the last to know. They assume their relationship is safe from infidelity and they do not know what to look for. Read on and you will get a better idea of what you should be looking for that uncovers their secret double life.

Most spouses that cheat, for obvious reasons, make every effort to hide their secret double life. What they do not realize is that their efforts are paired with a heightened level of anxiety and guilt. They know what they are doing is wrong (whether they care or not) and getting caught is the last thing they want to happen.

Being overly anxious will manifest itself in some different ways:

• Less communication with you - They worry that excessive conversation might lead them to slip up. If they seem to be less chatty and make efforts to avoid confrontation, you might be dealing with cheater.
• Heightened senses - When you go out, do they seem like they are on the look-out? Do they jump when the phone rings or there is a knock at the door? Are they frequently questioning your every move? When action is out of their control, they worry what might right around the corner!
• Lack of intimacy - When your spouse is cheating on you, they probably will find it difficult to be close with you. Part of the cheating spouse might even consider they are cheating on their secret partner if they get intimate with you! If there is a drastic change in your intimate life, you better dig deeper and find out what is up somewhere else!

It is likely that you will see a change in your spouse. Whether you choose to deal with it or ignore it will be up to you.