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How about you?

Why is it that in this fast paced, super technologically advanced era is sex still so taboo? Why is it that with years of study and statistical data stating the people in general are not happy co-existing within a one on one relationship, does society still try to fit our private lives into the parameters of tradition and normalcy? Both emotionally and physically, people need more than one person to satiate their desires, their wants, and their needs. Why may I ask, is it so bad to be honest with yourself and others about what you want and expect in your life.

The answer is simple. Some of us are enlightened, and the rest are simply afraid. Life hands down many lessons to us as we grow. Our parents, our teachers, our friends all have a hand in our life experiences and our wisdom. Some of us were brought up in guilt heavy environments and others with aloofness, and most somewhere in between. No one can say if it was the right way to raise you. It doesn’t matter, it is in the past. If you are letting your life be directed by things that you can control: Stop. So what if your mom doesn’t agree. She doesn’t have to know. Or should does, because who cares, this is about you, not about the feelings your may hurt. If you don’t allow yourself to live life and experience everything you can, you are not taking full advantage of being a human being. You are not taking full advantage of free will. You do what you want to! Why do you care what others think about you?

Finding love in more than one place is amazing. Knowing that you can feel all that you want, without being denied any part of life and the love that you desire and deserve is the way it should be. Understanding that finding the right someone may take 2 or 3 people isn’t strange, it is honest. People are complicated and have many wants in life. You may luck out and find that one person that can give you “almost” everything. Almost, because nobody in the history of time has ever been 100% satisfied with their partner. There is always something he can’t do just right, or there may be something that he wants, and you will not do it. Instead of resenting each other and eventually ending a beautiful thing, you should embrace the idea of opening the doors to new adventures, experiences, and romances!

Alternative lifestyles are only alternative because people are afraid to embrace human nature as it is. Scientists and doctors spend their entire lives trying to determine what makes us who we are, and why? The answer is forever changing, because by default we are a confusing creature. If the brainiacs and know-it-alls can’t figure it out, what makes you think that normal people are going to be able to? Living life in the past is getting you and everyone else nowhere but miserable and lonely. Why not open your mind to new experiences, so you body can indulge as well?