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Let us say you are the husband. You and your wife decide on a trial separation. You now ask yourself: Is dating allowed during marriage separation? The bible, if you care, has nothing to say on the subject. Modern psychologists do, however, have a lot to say. It is widely known that if you date during a marital separation it puts the strength of your relationship to the test. If, after dating, you both still want to return to your relationship, then it is widely accepted that your relationship will be a lot stronger and more stable for having put it to the test. This is common knowledge among dating experts.

You should be aware that there is a right way and a wrong way to date during marriage separation. The idea of dating during marriage separation is to test and strengthen your old relationship. It would be wrong to begin dating another woman with a view of establishing a long-term and loving relationship with her. What you should do, on the other hand, is simply enjoy casual dates with a woman or women who, like you, just want to have fun. The key factor here is not to take it too seriously. Go out to a movie. Grab a meal together. Chat about your favorite books. Do whatever allows you both to have fun. Think friendship, companionship, as opposed to intimacy and love. When you become intimate with another women you connect in a deep way that will almost certainly prevent you ever returning to your former relationship.

The ideal person to meet for dating during your trial separation is another married woman. You both have the same goals and expectations. She, like you, is merely testing the strength of her former relationship with a view to, perhaps, returning to it in the future.

In order to meet married women, you are best to avoid online classified sites, where people tend just to want to be intimate. Join a popular dating site and put in a search for married women in your town or city. All big dating sites allow you to search within minutes of your door for married women. Approach these women and be honest. Tell them exactly what you are doing. Contact them via email and instant messenger. I would guess that in a few minutes to an hour - at most - you will have found several married women who would be happy to go on dates.