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Have you ever wondered what you can do to get the commitment you deserve? Are you sick of waiting around for him to take your relationship to the next level? Do you want to push him in the right direction without pushing him away? Many people think that there is nothing that they can do to get the relationship to move forward and they sit and wait for it to happen naturally. This sometimes happens, but often it doesn't. However, you have with in your power small things you can do to get the commitment you deserve and get him to take your relationship to the next level.

Build Up Your Value.

You are very valuable and deserve only the best. However, he doesn't know that in the beginning. He may enjoy spending time with you and may like the things that you provide for him, but you really need to be valuable in his mind in order to be worth committing to. There are several things that you can do to build up your value in his mind's eye.

• Work on being his friend. You want your relationship to be one that is deep and real. Friendship is a very important part of a deep and meaningful relationship.

• Be fun to be around. Be a positive thinker who is fun to be around and enjoys life. He will want to be around you more.

• Do fun things together. Try new things each time you get together. Work on building positive feelings in him and positive memories.

• Do a lot of different things. Aim for never doing the same thing twice. This way you will build a lot of new memories making it feel like you have known each other longer and that you are always fun to be with.

Have a Life.

Even while you build up your worth in his mind's eye it is important that you also make sure you aren't always there. Have a life. Go out with your friends. Go shopping. Work on your hobbies and interests. Don't always answer his calls. This will make him realize just how valuable you are and make it so that he wants to do what is necessary in order to have more of you to himself. This coupled with the value you add to his life is the best way to get the commitment you deserve.

Build Up Your Self Worth.

While you are very valuable and you have a lot of worth, it is sometimes hard to see that yourself. It is important that you take some time to build up your self worth. This in turn builds up your confidence and makes it less important for him to commit to you. In this way you will radiate worth, value, and confidence. He is more likely to see you for who you are and not for a needy woman looking to snare him.

Getting him to commit may seem like hard work, but in reality, working the steps toward a deep and meaningful relationship is what will get him to give you the commitment you deserve. It will also get him to take your relationship to the next level.