dating

Well it's goodbye summer and hello fall and winter and you know what that means-more uncomfortable holiday parties and events in singledom. If you're on that frustrating search to meet the love of your life, but don't know where to go, keep reading for tips on the best places to meet that special someone.

One of the reasons why you haven't met him or her yet, is that you may be going to the wrong places. All the obvious ones like clubs and bars are actually places you want to avoid-that is if you are searching for a long-term relationship. Although once in awhile you may hear about a friend or an acquaintance that fell in love and married someone they met there, chances are the only people you'll meet are those who are searching for the love of the night, not the love of a lifetime.

So where do you go to find true love?

1. Group outings. You may not think that you could meet that special someone hanging out with a group trip skiing or water rafting but this may be the best location for love. This is because outings like this feel less pressured than a date and you'll also have the benefit of getting to know several new people in a group setting. So the next time your friend invites you on a group gathering with co-workers, think twice about saying no. You may meet the love of your life while gabbing with friends.

2. Gym. The gym provides ample opportunity to meet new people. Everyone's there to get in shape so it's easy to strike up a conversation with someone you fancy by asking him or her relevant questions such as how to use the equipment or about a class instructor.

3. Coffee shop. The coffee shop is where everyone is these days. Most people go alone so it's a less intimidating way to start a conversation with a stranger. Buy them a cup of coffee or ask if the seat next to them is taken.

4. Hiking. A lot of singles are adventurous hikers. If you are one of them, go out and find them. The best part is that you won't run out of things to talk about when you are surrounded by nature. If you're feeling nervous, just ask them about the hiking trail and how long it took them to finish it.

5. At work. If you're not allowed to date co-workers you might want to skip this one. However, if you can, finding your soulmate at work definitely makes work a lot more fun!

6. Places of worship. Churches offer a variety of activities that encourage members to interact. If you belong to a church make sure to sign up for group events to increase your chances of meeting someone with the same religious values as you.

7. Social networking events. You can chat online with social networking sites such as Facebook or you can attend social networking events. In addition to increasing your business contacts you can also meet new people and potential love interests.

8. Attend art shows, community events, and poetry readings. In addition to meeting new people, you will also have fun, learn something new and become more intriguing to potential suitors once they meet you.

9. Take a class. If you are in college, you'll find a flurry of great opportunities to meet new people at school. If you're out of school, consider taking a class in subjects you're interested in such as cooking or home improvement. You might find your true love and learn how to paint your living room all in the same place.

10. Online dating sites. These days the most convenient and popular way to meet other singles is through dating sites. Most people have at least a few friends that have been successful this way.

The truth is you can find your soul mate almost anywhere. The key is to be ready, willing, and open to finding him or her. Let people know you are looking and go out and put your best foot forward. You never know when you'll meet the right one shopping at your local market or at a book signing, so have fun and get ready for love!