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Do you want to know how to grab his attention? Do you long to get him interested and keep him interested? Do you think playing hard to get is just too hard to do? There are a lot of women out there who long to grab the attention of a man and keep it, but just aren't sure how to do that.

Playing hard to get is the best way to grab his attention and to keep it. However, you really have to be careful with how you play it so that he doesn't think that you are too much work and so that he knows you are worth chasing.

Be a Flirt.

The first thing you need to do is to be a flirt. This will help make it possible for you to draw his attention from square one. This doesn't mean you have to be overly flirty, but you should smile, make eye contact, laugh, have fun, and gently touch him on the arm, hand, or shoulder. This will grab his attention.

Remain a Mystery.

You shouldn't be completely mysterious, but you want some parts of you to remain mysterious. This will peak his curiosity and he will want to spend more time with you to learn more about you. Make sure you are still yourself while doing this.

Never Be the One To Call.

No matter how badly you want to you should always wait for him to be the one to call in the first several weeks of the relationship. This will make it so he knows you aren't desperate.

Be Excited When He Calls or Takes You Out.

Let him know that you are glad that he has called, glad to go on dates, and happy to see him. This way he knows you are interested even though you aren't chasing after him. At the same time don't break plans to go out with him because you want him to know you have things to do. Make sure you suggest an alternative day and time so he knows you are still interested and not just making an excuse.

Be Fun To Be Around, But Not Always Available.

You want to be fun to be around. Do new things with him. Enjoy it. Make him want to spend more time with you by being a positive person with a smiling personality. If this isn't normally you, than you should work on it because it will work in all areas of your life. At the same time, don't always be available. Give him some time to miss you and to long to see you again.

You have what it takes to grab his attention and to keep it. By playing hard to get the right way you can do so very easily. Enjoy it and have fun. Remember to let your hair down and explore life in a happy, breezy sort of way!