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Do you really, I mean really, want your ex back? After having a close relationship with a man, who then dumped you, you may want him back. After all you put a lot of time and emotional effort into that relationship, you can't just let it go without trying to win your ex back.

Firstly you need to stop, take a long breath and analyse your feelings. Do you still care deeply about you ex? Sometimes you will remember the safe, comfortable feelings you enjoyed when you were together, but you can't let comfort and safety cloud your judgement. If you still have deep passionate feelings for your ex, you are ready to move on to the next phase and try to win back your ex.

After determining that true love is what you experienced, you can start working on ways to bring both of you back together. Think back to when you fell in love, what was special about him and what do you think he loved about you? Were you fitter and more optimistic about life, did you enjoy more activities together?

Upon spending time with a guy things change, you become complacent and take things for granted. Maybe you need to remember the fun things you did together, also as he spends more time with you, you in turn spend less time with your girlfriends or on your own interests. You may have let yourself go a bit because you felt secure in his affection. If you want to win your ex back, you need to go back to being the girl he feel for.

Another tip to win your ex back is to not be clingy or pester you ex with calls, texts and especially don't stalk him. You definitely don't want to appear desperate. By seeming happy and unaffected you will actually be more desirable to him.

When you start to live life without him you will need to focus on what makes you happy, reconnecting with friends and family. You may even take up a hobby or play some sport, you will become a more positive person in general, then once you ex sees you being strong and confident he will want you back.

From time to time you will see him and this is when you can use the past to your advantage, wear clothes that he liked to see you in and meet at restaurant that you both liked, and just happen to mention that you had eaten there a few times recently. Because of the fun experiences you had together, you can use common history to win your ex back.