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No matter how hard a cheating spouse tries to hide infidelity, there are always signs and clues that may lead the other partner suspicious. Most often, a woman's intuition would lead her to find clues and hints of any infidelity in the relationship.

Infidelity however is not just about men cheating on the relationship. A percentage of women are also cheating on their partners. Indeed, marriage vows can be tried and tested with temptations at times and if you already have a suspicion of something going on in the relationship, you can always try to be keen on some signs that your spouse is cheating.

1. A cheating spouse may have sudden changes in work habits like working long hours too often, overtimes, going on business trips for longer days than the usual and many other work-related excuses. He may also hang out with officemates more often than usual. Take note that cheating spouses most often find affairs in the work place as it is where you spend most of the time aside from home. Even if the cheating does not involve an office mate, work is however a common excuse that most cheating partners would tell their spouses.

2. Conversations in the phone may either be discreet, abrupt and most often raises suspicion. Most often, the faithful partner picks up clues with the cheating spouse's behavior on the phone. He may try to avoid answering his cell phone and cancels calls when you are in the room or goes out of the room before he answers it. If he does answer the phone when you are around, he may be paying close attention on you and ends the call if he sees you coming close. If these behaviors are often and have become unusual, these may be signs that your spouse is cheating.

3. Unusual expenses and money issues start to appear. Cheating may somehow bring issues to the finances. Credit card charges to restaurants, gift items or suspicious expenses, increased phone bills, lesser savings... the credit card statement may provide a black and white clue about the infidelity. The cheating partner may get away with it at first but not at all times.

4. Other possible signs that your spouse is cheating are of course, lipstick marks, change in his perfume or he is giving too much attention to his looks and his body which he never does before. He may also spend some time trying hard to look nicer than usual.

Before you would confront your spouse upon seeing him do one or two of these signs listed here, keep in mind that these signs can also mean anything other than infidelity. These signs are just the common ones that cheating spouses tend to show and thus can give you an idea that there is indeed the possibility of cheating. It is important to consider that if you really want to know the exact truth, you just can't judge it by the change of behavior of your spouse. One tip - take advantage of technology to catch a cheating partner.