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Break ups are tough, especially if your relationship has broken up with somebody that you love very deeply and who you may have spent a significant amount of time with! Many people worldwide actually go through it but even so, losing a loved one through break up can make you feel very alone. This is normal and the usual response from loved ones and friends is one of "You need to move on!"

But letting go of a relationship isn't always that easy! So, I am going to play a little devil's advocate today and tell you that if you are trying so hard to let go of a relationship and the pain isn't subsiding, then maybe, just maybe, patching up a relationship is the key to healing a broken heart!

You may be sat there now reading this, thinking, I already know that and if I could go back I would! Not every break up and relationship ends on good terms and sometimes relationships end because of disloyalty and callous actions, but 9 out of 10 times letting go of that relationship can be one of the harder things to do.

You see, in life they say you only meet your true love once and once you have found your soul mate you need to stick with them. The thing is, that is what people say and I for one don't necessarily believe that as fact. But there is no way of knowing that the relationship you are trying to let go of, is the relationship that indeed holds the true love.

It takes a brave person to move on and fully let go of a relationship but it takes an even braver person to stand up and fight for their relationship and fight to save the love that once blossomed. So, looking at your own situation, is letting go of a relationship really the best thing to do?