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Being wildly in love with an ex presents a whole host of problems. It makes it virtually impossible to move on and date anyone new. It's also hard to focus on anything but thoughts of happier times and how to get him back. If you're a woman in this position now, chances are very good that you've spent many hours trying to devise a foolproof plan to get your ex boyfriend attracted to you again. You may have considered writing him a long, heartfelt letter or perhaps you entertained the idea of dating someone new just to make your ex jealous. Although these sound like great approaches to take, they're not going to get you what you want. If you're serious about reigniting the attraction your ex once felt for you, there are just a couple of things you must do.

If you want to make your ex boyfriend attracted to you again you absolutely have to accept the break up, for now. It's human nature to want to fight against the things we don't want. If the split was his idea, you need to be respectful of that. He's going to expect you to become overly emotional and do things like begging him to take you back or crying non-stop. If you do the opposite instead and appear to be fine with the split, he's going to be left confused. He's also going to feel the sting of rejection you've been feeling and that's what will make it impossible for him to not think about you.

You also have to disappear from his life for the next few weeks if you want to make your ex boyfriend attracted to you again. In order to make him want to be with you again you have to show him the void that is left in his life when you're no longer there. You may feel a desire to tell him that he'll miss you or he'll wake up one day realizing what he lost, but it's much more influential if he feels it. Don't worry about him finding someone in the meantime. It takes time for men to heal after a split too. Just give him some space, drop out of sight and before long he'll come looking for you.